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Jul 20, 2009

MBA - First day

My First day to MBA ( N.I.T.H.M )

After Enjoying 3 1/2 months of holydays,I felt a bit hard to accept all the changes.I have Started to college at 8.30 with my sis.We reached college at 9.30.At 8.30am,My sis, Started Telling me the Rules of conduct and behaviour,& she Ended brainwashing me at 9.40am.

Teachings of manaswitha akka ---
" 1. Archana don't be like an introvert
2. Dont believe everyone
3. Never dress or behave as if YOu are different from others,U must b like one among all,not 1 diffrnt from all....ETC ETC ETCcccccccccccccccccccc..................................................."

till 9.40 am

She gave me the Best wishes and went away.

I Have entered my classroom.Felt a bit tensed but ok.As I entered, I tried to calm myself.,n tried to look confident .Actually, i felt a bit nervous bcoz i was d only girl sitting der on d first chair.A professor came & Informed us to shift to the other class .Then,i waited outside till d guys move away so that i can interact with girls of my stream comming at d back.I saw some familiar faces comming, thanks to those group discussions and interview sessions.3 gals among them became close to me on the first day itself.I felt happy for that.. We started discussing abt r colg,and abt ourselves.The whole atmosphere was friendly.

After few minutes , professors entered d room. They all have introduced themselves. Then chairmen entered n gave msg"Life without challenges has no fun in it" I loved this msg given by him. At first it was all boring but finally,i have enjoyed the new dazzling Atmosphere. There r ppl from different parts, Also from Iraq, Tajikistan, Laos....It was nice meeting them all. I thought I can learn all kinds of languages being there.haha.

Parents of 2 of my new friends gave me the responsibility of taking care of those two girls,as they were new to Hyderabad. Though archana is a hyderbadi,she is much ignorant abt hyd than them.papam,Then dont know that :-) Now i have 2 take care of myself and also my 2 innocent friends.anyhow,my day was good.Thanq My god.Thanq my Family.



Jul 19, 2009

Stop worrying & start living: Words of my dad

"Expect the worst of worst that could happen,Be prepared for it n then you will b free of worries"

" Maha ayitey em avutundi? Pranam potunda? Yeah poni !" Nothing more worse could happen than death.Be prepared for everything. Be right. Be truthfull,daz it !

"bayam aneydi oka jabbu-phobia" Fear is death."Be courageous. Be Correct n fear no man"
Nothing worse could happen than death.be prepared for anything that can happen.Be free.
Mark Twain:
Let us so live that when we come to die even the undertaker will be sorry.
HH the Dalai Lama:

What is the meaning of life? To be happy and useful.
Alice Walker:
Expect nothing, live frugally on surprise
Albert Einstein:
True religion is real living; living with all one's soul, with all one's goodness and righteousness.

nice poem

"If by bathing daily God could be realized
Sooner would I be a whale in the deep;
If by eating roots and fruits He could be known
Gladly would I choose the form of a goat;
If the counting of rosaries uncovered Him
I would say my prayers on mammoth beads;
If bowing before stone images unveiled Him
A flinty mountain I would humbly worship;
If by drinking milk the Lord could be imbibed
Many calves and children would know Him
;If abandoning one's wife would summon God
Would not thousands be eunuchs?

poem by mirabai

Mirabai knows that to find the Divine One The only indispensable is Love."

Jul 18, 2009

Bhakthi

We are seeing that which is not actually a fact to be a fact.
Whatever we see or feel by our sensory perception is maya.
ananyas cinta yanto mamye janah paryupasate
tesam nityabhiyuktanam
yoga-ksemam vahamy aham

[“Those who always worship Me with exclusive devotion, meditating on My transcendental form—to them I carry what they lack, and I preserve what they have.” (Bhagavad-gita, 9.22)]

tyaktva sva-dharmam caranambujam harer
bhajann apakvo 'tha patet tato yadi
yatra kva vabhadram abhud amusya kim
ko vartha apto 'bhajatam sva-dharmatah

["One who has forsaken his material occupations to engage in the devotional service of the Lord may sometimes fall down while in an immature stage, yet there is no danger of his being unsuccessful. On the other hand,a non-devotee, though fully engaged in occupational duties, does not gain anything." (Srimad Bhagavatam 1.5. )

A karmi has worldly desires, but if he simply worships the Supreme GOD, all his desires will eventually disappear and pure bhakti will manifest in his heart.

--Giving up Of worldly desires and attachments,is also one kind of mukti.

sarva-dharman parityajya
mam ekam saranam vraja
aham tvam sarva-papebhyo
moksayisyami ma sucah

["Abandon all varieties of religion and just surrender unto Me(God). I shall deliver you from all sinful reactions. Do not fear." (Bhagavad-gita, 18.66)]


"Sthane sthitah sruti-gatam tanu-van-manobhir"

If you are wearing the saffron cloth of a brahmacari or sannyasi, do not marry and do not fall down. If you are grhastha, then remain grhastha, but after you are fifty years old, try to come out of grhastha life. Do not engage your whole life in the grhastha asrama. If you can be a grhastha like Prahlada Maharaja or the Pandavas, that is fine; but that is very rare.

"Tesam Jnani Nityayukta Ekabhaktirvisisyate
Priyo Hi Jnanino'tyarthamaham Sa Ca Mama Priyah"

This Shloka tells that out of the devotees, there are some wise people who want something in return and the people who don't expect any fruit in return of the worship. God loves the people who don't expect anything in return as their love towards the god is true.
Love that doesnt expect anything in return is TRUE !


prokto.api karmakaaNDena hyaatmaa dehaadvilakshaNaH .
nityashcha tatphalaM bhuN^kte dehapaataadanantaram.h

As per the karma kanda atman and body are different. Atman will enjoy the fruits of the actions performed by the body after the demise of the body.

My Family - My Strength

dady side family pic

Amma side Family Pic

Bhavana











MY CUTE SISTER..
I Love her More than anything in this world.chooo chweeetttttttt,cutee lovely kutty.
Bhavaaa Ummaahhhhhhhhh......................................lovely tweety pie.

Jul 15, 2009

Our greatest glory consist not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.

Integrity

The highest courage is
To dare to be yourself in the face of adversity.
Choosing right over wrong,
ethic over convenience, and
truth over popularity ...
these are choices that measure your life. Travel the path of integrity without looking back, for there is never a wrong time to do the right thing.

"A clever person solves a problem. A wise person avoids it."
Challenges are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful

Jul 14, 2009

FORGIVENNESS is like d FRAGRANCE a FLOWER gives,after IT'S BEEN STEPPED ON

Words of my dumb Heart :-(

"Nenu college ki vellanuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :-(
naku holydazzzzz chalaleyduuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu :-(
hostel voddu,MBA voddu,AAAAmeeee voddu......
:-0 I love Enjoyng in home with Bhavana :-)
Kuyyoo marrooooo nannu pampakandi rooooo :-(
:-(

♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

NITHM colg admistn letter vacheysindhe,just a weak more 2 go.

Jul 10, 2009

I Wanna Die Like this

Unusual Death :
Alex Mitchell (March 1975)A 50 year-old English, died due to fatal hilarity. By that time, he and his wife were watching The Goodies and he laughed uncontrollably for almost 25 minutes straight. He just then fell of the sofa and died due to heart failure.

After his death, his wife wrote a letter to The Goodies, thanking them for making her husband's final moments happy. Laughter is the best medicine? Not quite.

Interesting Facts.







1.Deeper Love Facts :

What is love? David Icke said: "Infinite Love is the Only Truth Everything Else is Illusion."

However, scientists tried to explain love using our genes as the base of the medical study. Basically, they found that we are attracted to persons that are genetically immune to the diseases and weaknesses that we are weak to. . Alchemy or old sacred studies believe that our body (Personal Self) is build around four energies (or four egos) that make up our Personal Self (our body). Those four energies are:
Physical Energy with its Needs,
Sensational with its Desires,

Emotional with its Feelings and Intellectual Energy with its Ideas. To reach Higher Self (our soul) these energies must be balanced. Since this is very hard to do in our distorted world, we usually seek for someone (soul mate) that will help us achieve Higher Existence (same like our genes our soul mate’s energies could fill half empty energies and empty our half spilling energies). Alchemy believes that we are not born with the soul, only with the seed of spirituality, and that our purpose in this dimension is to find our souls or to find our Higher Self. You wanted to make gold from the ordinary metal? Well finding love is the only solution or maybe you should meditate till you find your true balancing power .

2.Facts : lie in one's throat/ lie through one's teeth
Lie is usually manifested by these signs :
A sudden increase in the number of \"ums\" and \"ahs.\",
overly defensive,
no eye contact,
lying is stressful, they will try to be sarcastic,
turning his body away from you,
talking fast,
making statements that contradict each other,
unusual body language or a hand reaching to cover mouth.

3.2012-Maya predictions
Maya people were masters of mathematics and calendars and they were keeping track of time using three separate calendars. For predictions about the beginning and end of the “world” they used “Long Count” calender. And on December 21st 2012, the Long Count will be at the point zero which Maya predicts as the end of time and beginning of the new world. The Mayas were very accurate in their predictions and they predicted invasions on their soil and the World Wars.
hm....Have 2 c wat happens.

4.Light,Heat & God

Darkness is nothing but a absence of light. You can measure intensity of the light to infinity but can you do the same for darkness? Cold is nothing but absence of heat. Heat can be measured to infinity but cold maintains a steady value at a certain degree. Absolute zero (-460 F) is the total absence of heat; and all matter becomes inert and incapable of reaction at that temperature. It was proclaimed that Albert Einstein said: "Evil does not exist, or at least it does not exist unto itself. Evil is simply the absence of God. It is just like darkness and cold, a word that man has created to describe the absence of God. God did not create evil. Evil is the result of what happens when man does not have God's love present in his heart. It's like the cold that comes when there is no heat, or the darkness that comes when there is no light.

5. According to a recent study, people who talk on cell phones while driving are as impaired as drunk drivers, even when they use hands-free devices

Jul 9, 2009

Inspiring Stories

ONE
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Once,A 'devotee' wrote a letter to the editor of a newspaper and complained that it made no sense to go to the Temple .

'I've gone for 30 years now, he wrote, and in that time I have heard something like 3,000 mantras. But for the life of me, I can't remember a single one of them. So, I think I'm wasting my time and the Gurus are wasting theirs by giving services at all.

This started a real controversy in the 'Letters to the Editor' column, much to the delight of the editor.

It went on for weeks until someone wrote this clincher:

I've been married for 30 years now. In that time my wife has cooked some 32,000
meals. But, for the life of me, I cannot recall the entire menu for a single one of
those meals. But I do know this..

. They all nourished me and gave me the strength I needed to do my work.

If my wife had not given me these meals, I would be physically dead today.

Likewise, if I had not gone to the Temple for nourishment, I would be spiritually

dead today!

When you are DOWN to nothing.... God is UP to something! Faith sees

the invisible, believes the incredible and receives the impossible!

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TWO
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Once someone came to Buddha and started abusing him. He went on and on, abuse after abuse in a loud voice. He kept looking at Buddha for a reaction, but Buddha was as he was - calm, serene, smiling.

This further agitated him and he hurled more abuses. Buddha again was calm, serene, smiling, looking more peaceful than ever. Then this person stopped for a moment. and said, "I have been going on and on, abusing you, but there is no reaction from your side. You remain in peace. How come!?!"

Now Buddha finally spoke: "It is like if someone offers you sweets, what would you do?". The man replied, "Well, I like sweets so I would eat them and enjoy them".
Buddha continued, "Okay, now if someone offered you something bitter, what would you do?".

The man replied quickly, "Ofcourse, I would not accept it, I would return it to the

one who has given it."

Buddha said, "So I choose not to accept your abuses, you may take them

back".
At this, the man realised the wisdom and greatness of Buddha

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PERSEVERANCE-THREE
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The whole Magic of Kriya Success is in Perseverance. Perseverance means building foundation, sacrifice gratification , Strengths endurance and Progress, assures results.

For Eg: The Chinese bamboo plant is unique in nature. When the bamboo seed is laid and watered daily, one could find no improvement till 4 years. But all of a sudden, the tree rises to 90mtrs. Do the efforts we put in for the plant's upbringing for four years were gone in vain? No, They have laid a strong foundation in the first four years.

It took 20 years approx to build the taj mahal. They (Critics) are only setting a tent and calling it a settlement. Stay strong


Morale: The same applies with our practise, So it’s the perseverance that

counts. To continue in practise irrespective of failures.

2..A person has broken a stone with 10 blows will that implies all the 9

blows were in vain. All these nine blow added strength to one after

another.

Morale: Every effort is accountable

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FOUR
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Two Buddhist monks on reaching the bank of a stream found that an adolescent girl was standing there looking for some help as the flow of the stream was fast and she was apprehensive of crossing it on her own. The monk wanted to help her but were hesitant as they were trained not to touch a girl lest that might instigate any carnal feelings in them.

Then finally one of the monk offered his help and carried the girl on his shoulder through the stream. The girl thanked the monk and went her way. As the monks moved forward the other monk started accusing that by doing so this monk has broken his monkhood ideals and he will go to hell for this. That he had polluted himself and should do something worthwhile in order to purge himself of this sin undertaken by him.

Then finally after this went on for considerable amount of time the monk(who was the apparent sinner) very calmly said,
" Brother I carried the girl and then left her a long time back at the bank of the river. But you seem to carry her even now!!!"

Vaishnava

♣ What is Bhakti?

Bhakti is an ancient Sanskrit word which means Pure Love and Devotion.

“Pure” implies that there is no adulteration or mixture of anything else.

Love in its highest and most perfect state must be entirely pure and devoid of any

other desire than to give happiness and benefit to the beloved, the object of one’s love.



♣ VAISHNAVA JANATO (Bhaki Geet Translation)

Translation:

" One who is a vaishnav(God like person)

Knows the pain of others

Does good to others, esp. to those ones who are in misery

Does not let pride enter his mind

A Vaishnav, Tolerates and praises the the entire world

Does not say bad things about anyone

Keeps his/her words, actions and thoughts pure

O Vaishnav, your mother is blessed (dhanya-dhanya)

A Vaishnav sees everything equally, rejects greed and avarice

Considers some one else's wife/daughter as his mother

The toungue may get tired, but will never speak lies

Does not even touch someone else's property

A Vaishnav does not succumb to worldly attachments

Who has devoted himself to stauch detachment to worldly pleasures

Who has been edicted to the elixir coming by the name of Ram

For whom all the religious sites are in the mind

Who has no greed and deciet

Who has renounced lust of all types and anger

The poet Narsi will like to see such a person

By who's virtue, the entire family gets salvation .
"

To my heart,Any human who follows this is a Vaishnava."Men become great by deeds,Not by birth."
Im sri vaishnava by birth n tryng to bcum this Vaishnava as well...!


Science

1.Music can cure heart attack.
Music that had a fast tempo increased blood pressure along with heart rate, while slow music lowered them. Similar effect was noticed when the volume of the music was altered.
Thus a combination of fast and slow music can help regulate the cardiovascular system and contribute to its rehabilitation.
Researchers discovered that volume increase provoked moderate arousal while its decrease made patients more relaxed. Both heart rate and blood pressure lowered when the music stopped. Professor Luciano Bernardi at the University of Pavia, in Italy, wrote about the effect of music in an article published in the Journal of the American Heart Association.

2.Long Time sleep leads to diabetis.

People who sleep too much or too little have a higher risk of developing diabetes of the second type, since they have lowered glucose assimilation.The authors mention that a 7-8-hours-long length of sleep is optimal among the adults in order to protect the organism from well-spread diseases and early death

3.Cigarette Smoke Changes Heart's Shape

American biologists have determined that cigarette smoke influences the cell division in the cardiac muscle and changes heart's shape.

Previous experiments have proved that smoke from one cigarette increases all of a sudden the normal quantity of corticosteroids, and also the quantities of adrenalin and noradrenalin. These biological active substances enhance the heart rate, increase the cardiac volume by raising the blood pressure and by intensifying the speed of myocardial contractions.

The heart of a smoker makes 12-15 thousand contractions more than the heart of a non-smoker does, which leads to a hyperfunction of the cardiac muscle. In the same time the heart is not saturated with the necessary quantity of oxygen because of the constricted vessels of the smoker. Moreover, 10 percent of the blood hemoglobin is excluded from the respiratory process by adding molecules of carbon dioxide.

Cigarette smoke contains not only nicotine, but also other 4.000 chemical components, whose effects are still not clear.

Scientists have studied thoroughly the effect of the cigarette smoke on the heart of rats. A group of animals had been breathing air mixed with cigarette smoke for 5 weeks, another group of rats had been breathing normal air. At the end of the experiment the rats were examined by the means of echocardiography and microscopy, and were also taken analysis on the enzyme content in the cardiac tissue.

The rats from the first group were found to have a modified shape of the left ventricle – the main blood pump in the cardiac muscle. An active form of enzyme, controlling the cardiac muscle cell division was also determined in the "smoking" rats. Another change in them was the increased level of norepinephrine, a hormone which takes part in the blood pressure and peripheral vascular resistance regulation. This hormone is also responsible for dealing with stress.

The article published in the European Journal of Heart Failure also mentions other dangerous biochemical changes in the heart under the influence of cigarette smoke.

4.Coffee Stimulates Intellectual Abilities

First, some studies in France have showed that women who drink 3 or more cups of coffee every day, in comparison with women who drink one or none, have a 30 percent less risk of memory problems when they are 65.

This research, published in Neurology magazine in August, 2007, was also the one to show that the advantages of drinking coffee are increased along with the age. Memory problems in women older than 80, who used to drink 3 or more cups of coffee per day, were decreased with circa 70 percent than in women not "fond" of coffee. The same effect can be obtained with tea too, but in this case one should drink 2 cups of tea instead of a cup of coffee.

Specialists affirm that caffeine in coffee and tea is a stimulator of brain’s cognitive activity, it also helps decreasing the level of beta-amyloidal proteins in the brain, which, in their turn, trouble the normal activity of the human brain. Significant accumulations of this protein are the basis of Alzheimer's disease. More than 7,000 women and men in 3 cities of France have taken part in the research. None of them had mind disabilities at the beginning of the research. The scientists used to check repeatedly once in 2 and 4 years the cognitive capabilities of the persons in case.
The negative effects of coffee drinking include the following possible side-effects: extreme anxiety, insomnia, trembling and heart arrhythmias. Besides, it can cause the irritation of the digestive system, of the urinary bladder and of the prostate. If you feel any of these side-effects, then it is better for you to avoid coffee usage (that also includes coffee with no caffeine, because it may contain substances which would influence negatively your organism), apart from all the advantages it may bring. Tea can be a wonderful substitute, a healthy and, in the same time, with no side-effects alternative
5.Heavy Use of Cell Phones Leads to Sperm DNA Damage

Jul 7, 2009

NICE REPLY--- Itz True !







Once A Person Questioned Shiv ji,in dis way :







What anybody Does is their Business.When people take drugs,it is none of ur business.why dont you leave them Alone?


He Replied :


" My Friend,Even though i disapprove ,i will compromise and Accept what u r saying.--that it is none of my business.
If u can Guarantee that When someone takes drugs,and when they get behind the wheel of a car & have an accident,the only thing they will ever hit is a tree,I will compromise.BUT, IF U CANNOT GUARANTEE THAT WHEN THEY TAKE DRUGS & HAVE AN ACCIDENT,THEN
YOU
OR
YOUR KIDS

OR
I
OR
MY KIDS

COULD BE DEAD UNDER THE WHEELS,
YOU BETTER BELIEVE IT IS MY BUSINES.I HAVE TO GET THIS PERSON OFF THE ROAD."

This one phrase " It is my life,I will do what I want " has done more damage than good.


These people forget that WE Dont Live In I solation.
What U do Affects Me & What I Do Affects U.
As WE ARE CONNECTED.
Here We Have to learn that " We are Sharing the Planet & We must Learn to Behave Responsibly"
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STORY - Character

It tells you how character and principles of a person matters more than money or his profession.


Abraham Lincoln was a very successful practicing attorney. Once someone asked him to take up a case. After hearing the details Lincoln said, “I understand your case. It’s technically strong but ethically weak. I cannot accept it because while I am arguing it, at the back of my mind all the time, I’ll keep saying to myself, ‘Lincoln, you’re a liar. Lincoln, you’re a liar’. I won’t be able to live with myself.”


Thus, His implied message was very clear, he wanted to say that he sells his professional time but not his conscience. In your own life you will face several such situations where time will enforce you to do something, which you also think, is wrong.


There comes your will power, your conscience, and your character.


If you can take a firm decision that yes I’m not going to this because it’s not ethically correct, then definitely you are a person of honor.

People


for the faults of the many, judge not the whole. Everything on earth is of mixed character, like a mingling of sand and sugar. Be like the wise ant which seizes only the sugar, and leaves the sand untouched - yogi

Change FOCUS -Always Look For D Positive. :

Andrew Carnegie Once said :
Dealing with people is like Digging GOLD.

When U go digging for an ounce of gold ,U have to move Tons of Dirt to get an ounce of gold.But when u go digging u dont go looking for dirt,You go looking for gold


In d same way, Always WE HAVE TO DIG TO KNOW WHAT Is GOOD in a Person/Situation Rather than watz bad.If We R Looking for what is wrong in a Person,We shall Find Many(as we find DIRT while digging 4 GOLD).There is something POSITIVE in Every PERSON & Every SITUATION. Sometimes, we have to dig deep to look for the positive because it may not be apparent.Besides we are so used to looking for watz wrong with other ppl/situation,n V FOrget 2 c watz right.
As some1 said " Even a Stopped Clock is Right Twice a day"



REMEMBER :
When U go digging for an ounce of gold ,U have to move Tons of Dirt to get an ounce of gold.But when u go digging u dont go looking for dirt,You go looking for gold .


Letz All change d focus,and Always Look for the POSITIVE,As v Look 4 D Gold.

The most beautiful people in the world are not 

those with attractive faces or skinny body,


but those who know how to respect the beauty 

of others....




 " See the light in others, and treat them as if that is all you see "

Jul 6, 2009

SUFFERINGS -- DESIRE



























1.Desire and ignorance lie at the root of suffering.
Here,Desire, refers to craving pleasure, material goods, and immortality, all of which are wants that can never be satisfied. As a result, desiring them can only bring suffering. Ignorance, in comparison, relates to not seeing the world as it actually is. Without the capacity for mental concentration and insight, one's mind is left undeveloped, unable to grasp the true nature of things. Vices, such as greed, envy, hatred and anger, derive from this ignorance.Also,The origin of suffering is attachment. .Ignorance means Being Blind 2 d consequences of R actions.

2 .Karma refers to good or bad actions a person takes during her lifetime.
Bad actions, such as lying, stealing or killing, bring about unhappiness in the long run.

CRAVING :
Craving can be explained as the strong desires that people have for pleasing their senses and for experiencing life itself. Buddhists believe that anything that stimulates our senses or our feelings can lead to craving. None of the pleasures we crave for ever give us lasting happiness or satisfaction. This is why people can crave to repeat these experiences again and again, and become unhappy and dissatisfied until they can satisfy their craving.The tree of craving has its roots in ignorance. It grows out of ignorance, and its seeds fall and flourish whenever they find ignorance.Buddhists teach that as long as people remain ignorant of things about the world, they will suffer from all kinds of misunderstandings and delusions. But when people develop their minds and acquire wisdom through study, careful thought and meditation, they will see the Truth. They will see things as they really are.
The way to end suffering in life is to understand what causes it. Craving and ignorance are the two main causes of suffering. People suffer with their craving for the pleasures of the senses and become unsatisfied and disappointed until they can replace their cravings with new ones. People suffer too when they are unable to see the world as it really is and live with illusions about life and fears, hopes, facts and behaviours based on ignorance. Craving and misunderstanding can be solved by developing the mind, thinking carefully and meditating. Solving these main causes of suffering will lead a person to true happiness, just as it did for the Buddha himself 2,500 years ago.

The Buddha said that overcoming craving and ignorance leads to true happiness and Enlightenment.
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DESIRE

The Motivation for success comes from the burning Desire to achieve a purpose.Napoleon hill wrote : "What ever the mind of a man can Conceive and Believe ,the mind can Achieve"

STORY :
A young man asked Socrates the Secret of Success.Socrates told the young man to meet him near the river the next morning.They met.Socrates asked the young man to walk with him towards the river.When the water got up to their neck,Socrates took the young man by Surprise and Ducked him into the Water.The boy struggled to get out but Socrates was strong and kept him there untill the boy started Turning Blue.Socrates pulled his head out of the water and the first thing the young man did was to Grasp and take deep breath of air.Socrates asked : " What did U Want the Most When U were there? "

The boy replied : "AIR",then Socrates said :

That is the secret of success.

" When U want Success as badly as U wanted air,then U will get it ".There is no other secret.
A Burning Desire is the starting point of all Acomplishment.Just like a small fire cannot give much heat ,a weak desire cannot produce great Results

Jul 2, 2009

FAMOUS QUOTES




1.Love never claims, it ever gives; love never suffers, never resents, Never

revenges itself. Where there is love there is life; hatred leads to destruction.


2.Hatred can be overcome only by love

3.In my humble opinion, non-cooperation with evil is as much a duty as is cooperation with good.

4.A coward is incapable of exhibiting love; it is the prerogative of the brave

5.Victory attained by violence is tantamount to a defeat, for it is momentary


6.The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong


7.Always aim at complete harmony of thought and word and deed. Always aim at purifying your thoughts and everything will be well.


8.It is better to be violent, if there is violence in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of nonviolence to cover ఇమ్à°ªోà°¤ెà°¨్à°¸్

9.All humanity is one undivided and indivisible family, and each one of us is responsible for the misdeeds of all the others. I cannot detach myself from the wickedest soul.


10.When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers and for a time they seem invincible but in the end, they always fall -- think of it, ALWAYS.



11.The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.


12.The Seven Deadly Sins are wealth without work, pleasure without conscience, knowledge without character, business without morality, science without humanity, worship without sacrifice and politics without principle.

13.The sacrifice which causes sorrow to the doer of the sacrifice is no sacrifice. Real sacrifice lightens the mind of the doer and gives him a sense of peace and joy. The Buddha gave up the pleasures of life because they had become painful to him



14. I see God in every human being. When I wash the leper's wounds, I feel I am nursing the Lord himself. Is it not a beautiful experience?"I try to give to the poor people for love what the rich could get for money. No, I wouldn't touch a leper for a thousand pounds; yet I willingly cure him for the love of God.

15.When a poor person dies of hunger, it has not happened because God did not take care of him or her. It has happened because neither "you " nor "I " wanted to give that person what he or she needed.

16.Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you.




17.The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved.The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for breadBeing unwanted, unloved, uncared for, forgotten by everybody, I think that is a much greater hunger, a much greater poverty than the person who has nothing to eat. If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one.


18."Please choose the way of peace. ... In the short term there may be winners and losers in this war that we all dread. But that never can, nor never will justify the suffering, pain and loss of life your weapons will cause."


19.An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind.--non-violence - BapuJi


20.The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good .

Quotes

1.when there is no thought, the mind experiences happiness; and when the world appears, it goes throuGh misery.


2.I’ve learned that ultimately , ‘takers’ lose and ‘givers’ WIN.

3.INTEGRITY
"Integrity "means you stick to your personal code of conduct.
You stick to what you decide is right and wrong.
When you live with integrity, you succeed.
You are open and honest.
Your life is uncomplicated and less stressful.When you have good integrity you have no reason to lie. You can look at yourself in the mirror. You have nothing to hide .

3.INTEGRITY is demonstrated by people who do the right thing, no matter what the circumstances may be

4."One person with a belief is equal to a force of 99 who have only interests."

5.When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying

6.Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do

7.Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don'tgo for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright

8.Life laughs at you when you are unhappy.Life smiles at you when you are happy.Life salutes you when you make others happy...

9.Anybody can become angry- that is easy:but to be angry with the right person, and to the right degree, and at the right time, and for the right purpose, and in the right way- that is not within every body's power and is not easy.

10.Delusion will vanish as the light becomes more and more effulgent, load after load of ignorance will vanish, and then will come a time when all else has disappeared and the sun alone shines.

11.Without serving parents, Guru and guests, no matter how many punyas are performed they are all in vain.

12.The biggest paapam on this earth, the karmabhoomi is to hurt others' hearts, as there is neither a remedy nor a 'praayschittam' to the sin caused due to hurting others.

13 .WHAT IS TRUE FOR YOU is what you have observed yourself
"And when you lose that you have lost everything."

14. Character is higher than intellect."

15 .I will Do the right thing, even if it isn’t going to be easy forme or for others.• Make sure there is no difference between what Isay and what I do. I will be consistent and true to my heart.

16."If you fall, fall like a seed to germinate but not like a leaf to die"

17.From What We Get We Can Make A Living. What We Give However Makes A Life

18. Pain Is Inevitable. Suffering Is Optional.

19.When you were born, you were crying and
everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when
you die, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around
you is crying

20.Life laughs at you when you are unhappy.
Life smiles at you when you are happy.
Life salutes you when you make others happy...

21.PEOPLE WHO GAMBLE FOR MONEY ARE POTENTIAL CHEATERS BECAUSE THEY ARE TRYING TO GET SOMETHING
FOR NOTHING.

22.Believe none of what you hear and only
half of what you see, and you will be a wise woman

23.God places the heaviest burden on those who can carry its weight." - Reggie White

24.The love we give away is the only love we keep. -Elbert Hubbard

25. Players win, players lose, players prepare, players practice, players get hurt but players get up. No matter what the outcome is, players play

Chanakya quotes

Chanakya Quotes
1."A person should not be too honest.Straight trees are cut firstand Honest people are victimised first .

2."Even if a snake is not poisonous,it should pretend to be venomous."

3.The biggest guru-mantra is: Never share your secrets with anybody. !It will destroy you

4.There is some self-interest behind every friendship.There is no Friendship without self-interests.This is a bitter truth

5."Before you start some work, always ask yourself three questions - Why am I doing it, What the results might be and Will I be successful. Only when you think deeply and find satisfactory answers to these questions, go ahead


6."As soon as the fear approaches near, attack and destroy it

poni poni pothe poni

The easiest way for us to gain happiness is to learn how to want the things we already have 
Happiness isn’t something that depends on our surroundings, Corrie. It’s something we make inside ourselves


poni poni pothe poni
satul sutul hitul poni
raani raani vosthe raani
kashtaal nashtaal kopaal taapal syapaal raani
kaani kaani !
gaanam dhyaanam haasam laasam kaani...............................
---sri sri

How did it feel to fail 1,000 times?

I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps. I never ever see anything as loss in Life as Every loss can be converted into a profit of experience in life and can be invested in the next decision
-Thomas Alva Edison



The true purpose is to see things as they are, to observe things as they are, and to let everything go as it goes - zen






BEST POEM OF 2009 - by an African kid


This poem was nominated by UN as the best poem of 2009, Written by anAfrican Kid
When I born, I black
When I grow up, I black
When I go in Sun, I black
When I scared, I black
When I sick, I black
And
when I die, I still black
And
you white fellow
When you born, you pink
When you grow up, you white
When you go in sun, you red
When you cold, you blue
When you scared, you yellow
When you sick, you green
And when you die, you gray
And you calling me colored?????????????????????????????????
hahahahahhahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

INSPIRATIONAL Telugu Song.




MounamganeMovie Name: Naa Autograph (2004)Singer: ChitraMusic Director: Keeravani MMLyrics: ChandraboseYear: 2004Producer: Bellamkonda SureshDirector: Gopal Reddy SActors: Bhumika Chawla, Gopika, Mallika, Raviteja




mounam gaanE edagamani mokka niiku cheputundi,


edigina koddii odagamani ardhamandulO undi .


apajayaalu kaligina chOTE gelupu pilupu vinipistundi


aakulanni raalina chOTE kotta chiguru kanipistundi


dooramentO undani digulu paDaku nEstamaa


dariki chErchu daarulu kuuDaa unnaayigaa


bhaaramentO undani baadhapaDaku nEstamaa


baadha venTa navvula panTa UnTundigaa


saagara madhanam modalavaganE vishamE vachchindi


visugE chendaka kRushi chEstEnE amRutamicchindi


avarOdhaala deevullo aananda nidhi unnadi


kashTaala vaaradhi daaTina vaariki sontamavutundi


telusukunTe satyamidi talachukonTe saadhyamidi


chemaTa neeru chindagaa nuduTi raata maarchukO


maarchalEnidEdii lEdani gurtunchukOO


piDikilii biginchagaa chEti geeta maarchukO


maaripOni kadhalE lEvani gamaninchukO


TochinaTTugaa andari raatalu brahmE raastaaDu


nachchinaTTuga nee talaraatanu nuvvE raayaali


nee dhairyaannE darSinchi daivaalE taladinchagaa


nee aDugullo gudikaTTi swargaale tariyinchagaa


nee sankalpaaniki aa vidhi saitam chEtulettaali


antulEni charitalaki aadi nuvvu kaavali .


QUOTES

• Plan your work and work your plan. -Napolean Hill


• I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul. -William Ernest Henley



• You can learn new things at any time in your life if you're willing to be a
beginner. If you actually learn to like being a beginner, the whole world opens up to you. -Barbara Sher



• Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. -William Jennings Bryan


• The problem is not that there are problems. The problem is expecting otherwise and thinking that having problems is a problem. -Theodore Rubin



• You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do. - Eleanor Rooseve



-- Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. -Robert Brault



• The tragedy of life doesn't lie in not reaching your goal. The tragedy lies in having no goal to reach. -Benjamin Mays



• If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very innovative. -Woody Allen



• If you're made of the right material, a hard fall is bound to result in a high bounce.



• Size isn't everything. The whale is endangered, while the ant continues to do just fine. -Bill Vaughan



• Adversities cause some men to break; others to break records. -William A. Ward



• Be more concerned with your character than with your reputation. Your character is what you really are while your reputation is merely what others think you are. -John Wooden



• I still feel like I gotta prove something. There are a lot of people hoping I fail. But I like that. I need to be hated. - Howard Stern


--If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost. That is where they should be. Now put the foundation under them. -Henry David Thoreau



• Between the great things we cannot do and the small things we will not do, the danger is that we shall do nothing. - Adolph Monod



• Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out. -Art Linkletter



• We must stop assuming that a thing which has never been done before probably cannot be done at all. -Donald M. Nelson



• It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that things are difficult. -Seneca



• Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up. -Thomas A. Edison


--Progress always involves risks. You can't steal second base and keep your foot on first. -Frederick B. Wilcox



• To live only for some future goal is shallow. It's the sides of the mountain that sustain life, not the top. -Robert M. Pirsig


• Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it. -Groucho Marx



• There are no great people in this world, only great challenges which ordinary people rise to meet. -William Frederick Halsy, Jr.



• When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us. -Alexander Graham Bell



--Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.--Marie Curie



• Above all, challenge yourself. You may well surprise yourself at what strengths you have, what you can accomplish. -Cecile M. Springer



• If you have built castles in the air, your work need not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them. -Henry David Thoreau



• Having once decided to achieve a certain task, achieve it at all costs of tedium and distaste. The gain in self-confidence of having accomplished a tiresome labor is immense. -Thomas A. Bennett


• Do not confuse motion and progress. A rocking horse keeps moving but does not make any progress. -Alfred A. Montapert



• Someone's sitting in the shade today because someone planted a tree a long time ago. -Warren Buffett



• To think is easy. To act is hard. But the hardest thing in the world is to act in
---.People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing -- that's why we recommend it daily. -Zig Ziglar


• Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. -Jim Ryun


• If you believe you can, you probably can. If you believe you won't, you most assuredly won't. Belief is the ignition switch that gets you off the launching pad. -Denis Waitley



• Our greatest glory consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. -Confucius



• When we accept tough jobs as a challenge and wade into them with joy and enthusiasm, miracles can happen. -Arland Gilbert



• Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives. -William James



• We should be taught not to wait for inspiration to start a thing. Action always generates inspiration. Inspiration seldom generates action. -Frank Tibolt


---A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort. -Herm Albright



• Real confidence comes from knowing and accepting yourself--your strengths and your limitations - in contrast to depending on affirmation from others. -Judith M. Bardwick



• To accomplish great things, we must not only act but also dream. Not only plan but also believe. -Anatole France



• It had long since come to my attention that people of accomplishment rarely sat back and let things happen to them. They went out and happened to things. -Elinor Smith• Action itself, so long as I am convinced that it is right action, gives me satisfaction. -Jawaharlal Nehru



• It’s not the oath that makes us believe the man, but the man who says the oath. -Aeschylus


• If you believe you can, you probably can. If you believe you won't, you most assuredly won't.



--Belief is the ignition switch that gets you off the launching pad. -Denis Waitley


--.Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking. -William B. Sprague



• The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible. -Arthur C. Clarke



• If you do not hope, you will not find what is beyond your hopes. -St. Clement of Alexandra


• It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, "Always do what you are afraid to do." -Ralph Waldo Emerson


• Trust yourself. You know more than you think you do. -Benjamin Spock



• Man's main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality. -Erich Fromm



• To the question of your life you are the answer, and to the problems of your life you are the solution. -Joe Cordare



• Don't let anyone steal your dream. It's your dream, not theirs. -Dan Zadra



• What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. -Ralph Waldo E



• Have the courage to say no. Have the courage to face the truth. Do the right thing because it is right. These are the magic keys to living your life with integrity. -W. Clement Stone



• Motivation is a fire from within. If someone else tries to light that fire under you, chances are it will burn very briefly. -Stephen R. Covey



• Opportunities are like sunrises. If you wait too long, you miss them. -William Arthur Ward



• Forget about all the reasons why something may not work. You only need to find one good reason why it will. -Dr. Robert



• The difference between a successful person and others is not a lack of strength, not a lack of knowledge, but rather in a lack of will. -Vincent J. Lombardi



• The most important thing about motivation is goal setting. You should always have a goal. -Francie Larrieu Smith



• In my experience, there is only one motivation, and that is desire. No reasons or principle contain it or stand against it. -Jane Smiley


• It's a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it. -W. Somerset Maugham




• Not doing more than average is what keeps the average down. -William M. Winans



• Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go. -T. S. Eliot



• Anger blows out the candle of the mind. -R. G. Ingersoll



• Accept the challenges, so that you may feel the exhilaration of victory. -General George S. Patton


• You never fail until you stop trying. -Florence Griffith Joyner


• The greatest mistake you can make in this life is to be continually fearing you will make one. -Elbert Hubbard


• Life is a series of collisions with the future; it is not the sum of what we have been, but what we yearn to be. -Jose Ortega y Gasset


• Avoid competency traps. Do not stay only where you are good at things, Go out and be challenged. -Andrew Creighton


---Remember that you are needed. There is at least one important work to be done that will not be done unless you do it. -Charles L. Allen



• Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation, perspiration and inspiration. -Evan Esar



• I cannot give you the formula for success, but I can give you the formula for failure--which is: Try to please everybody. -Herbert Bayard Swope



• Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true. -Leon J. Suenes



• Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings. -Ralph Blum



• Knowing is not enough; we must apply. Willing is not enough; we must do. -Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


• Your most valuable asset can be your willingness to persist longer than anyone else. -Brian Tracy




• Destiny is not a matter of chance, but a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for it is a thing to be achieved. -William Jennings Bryant


• To achieve something you've never achieved before, you must become someone you've never been before. -Bria Tracy



• The secret of happiness is not doing what one likes, but liking what one has to do. -James M. Burrie



• The older I grow, the more I listen to people who don't say much. -Germain G. Glidden



• I do not ask for any crown but that which all may win; nor try to conquer any world except the one within. -Louisa May Alcott



• I do not pray for a lighter load, but for a stronger back. -Philip Brookes


Parasara Smriti @

Smriti created by sage Parashar and known by his name as 'Parashar Smriti is the most benevolent for the modern Kali Yuga. Parashar has himself said:

TRANSLATED TEXT OF PARASARA SMRITI


1. Manu Smriti was most relevant in Satya Yuga. In Treta, Smriti created by Gautam had most relevance whereas in Dwapar, Shankh's Smriti was mostly recognized. But in
Kali Yuga, it is Parashar Smriti that by and large shows the way to the ignorant people. Parashar Smriti endorses all those ideologies of human life which are capable of improving the life of common people in the present fourth age. Paradoxes are the main feature of human life in Kali Yuga irrespective of region, culture and society.


SINS IN KALI YUGA

  •  In Satya Yuga, a human being would be defiled just by conversing with the sinner. In Treta, a mere touch of sinner was enough to defile a man. In Dwapar, eating the cereals given a sinner defiled a man. But in Kali Yuga, man is subject to sins by his deeds alone. Thus, a curse used to realize in an instant now takes a year to show its effect.
                                                              VIPRAKARMA

VIPRAKARMA (Conduct of Brahmin)
Six routine tasks like

  • Three times bath, 
  • prayer at dawn and dusk, 
  • recitation, Homa (offerings to sacred fire),
  • worship of deity, 
  • treatment of guests and
  • offering sacrifices for the deceased ancestors are mandatory for a Brahmin daily.
  •  Through these actions, a Brahmin gets free from the sin he commits unknowingly.

HOSPITALITY

  • A guest arriving at the end of these daily routine tasks is a means to provide a place in heaven. Hence, such a guest deserves respect no matter whether he is a friend or a foe, a fool or a savant. A cordial welcome should also be extended to such a guest like the ones already present. Even the guest arriving after dining is over should be welcomed with honour. Such a pious conduct of a householder today ensures his right to a place in heaven.
  •  A guest should not be asked to reveal his caste and creed for it indents the religion.
  •  Smriti also tells that a guest should never be insulted nor should one let a guest go dejected because then the deceased ancestors of the host starve for fifteen years

ALMS AND DONATIONS

  • Recitation of God's name and making donations and giving away alms constitute religion in Kali Yuga.
  •  Donation is the only intact support of religion today. Hence, it is the moral duty of the common householders today that they should recite God's name and make donations within their powers. Character of donation has also changed completely today. Sage Parashar says :In Satya Yuga, the donor used to visit the home of the beggar to make donations. In Treta, the donor called the beggar to him, In Dwapar, the donor made donations only when demanded but
  •  In Kali Yuga, donor demands service from the beggar before making donations. But one should take care that the donation must be made for good deeds and to a deserving person only
  • Sowing of seeds in a good fertile field and making donation to a deserving person never go futile. 
  • Making donation is an easy and divine measure to ensure success of life in this world and in another. This dictate of sage Parashar is still being followed faithfully even today
  • Giving Alms: Like other religious actions, there are certain evolved norms to give away alms.         First of all, 
  • pour water on the palms of the ascetic and then give him alms. According to Parashar, alms given away in such way are as inexhaustible as the Mount Sumeru and the whole waters of the ocean.
  • If a beggar arrives when a Brahmin household is offering sacrifices for the solace of his deceased ancestors, -  the Brahmin must divide the cereals in two parts and should reserve one to make offerings and donate the other as alms to the beggar.
  • The sin committed unknowingly while offering sacrifices to the dead ancestors is done away with by the beggar. But, a crime committed against a beggar at such a moment is never done away with by the offering of sacrifices to the dead ancestors.

Offering Sacrifices to the dead ancestors: Offering sacrifices to the dead ancestors is one of the five great Yagyas. During this ritual, 

  • a Brahmin should make offerings to the sacred fire. 
  • Then, he should use the remaining cereals to offer to the dead ancestors and also to the animals and birds. If a Brahmin does not perform this ritual,
  •  he is bound to suffer severe torments in hell and take reincarnation as a crow
  • Norms for DiningA Brahmin should dedicate his food to God first. Then he should take it as a pious giving of God. While dining, a Brahmin should not cover his head, should not face the south and should not put his hand on the left leg. These are all deeds characteristic of demons.

                                                 Duties


  • SUICIDE : It regards suicide as an abhorrent crime. Even those who carry out the cremation of the person, who had committed suicide, have to expiate for their sin. 

DUTIES OF A WOMAN


  • woman, who doesn’t regard her poor, diseased or ignorant husband, becomes a serpent after her death and faces widowhood again and again.
  •  After her monthly periods, a woman must crave for intercourse only in the company of her husband.

A woman, who does not dedicate herself after her periods to her husband, goes to hell after her death and faces widowhood in subsequent births.


DUTIES OF A HUSBAND


  • A husband, who does not accept the desire of his wife of having intercourse after her periods, commits a crime equal to killing an unborn child.Sage Parashar asserts that, killing an unborn child is more severe sin than killing a Brahmin. A sweet relation between the spouses is the key to a successful social life. Hence, they should help each other with dedication at the times of emergency.
  •  Husband should also respect his wife and behave accordingly even if she is a disabled person

                                                
                                                  Sin related 2 biting by animals :

If a dog bites a person during his fast, the person must observe continuous fast for three days and consume nothing except ghee and juices of the grass. When purified, he should complete his original fast. If a dog bites a woman, she may get purified instantly by sighting the moon . chapter that describes the sin involved in the killing of birds and the ways to expiate it:One must observe a day’s fast to get purified from the sin of killing a heron, crane, swan, geese, cock, hen, duck and grasshoppers.
Killing of peafowl is even severe sin. One must worship Lord Shankar to get free from the sin of killing a peafowl
.


                                                     
       EIGHTH CHAPTER
This chapter describes the expiation for the sins committed unknowingly. It asserts that such sins should not be hidden because such a practice only adds to the sins.

  • If a cow or an ox dies while tethering or yoking, expiation is necessary because those animals were under the honour and assisting him. Religious polymaths say: To expiate for the sin, a Kshatriya and a Vaishya must take a bath fully dressed silently and appear as such before the jury. If the same is suspected, sage Parashar dictates that it must be expiated for leaving the food.


                                  NINTH CHAPTER

In this chapter, sage Parashar writes about the expiation for the sin of killing a cow.
If the cow or an ox dies due to forceful enclosure, tethering, yoking and killed deliberately, a sin equal to killing a cow results. One must observe a fast for a quarter of a day if death of the cow is due to forceful enclosureFor the death due to tethering, fast for half a day is required. If yoking is the cause of death, fast for three-quarters of a day and for deliberate killing, fast for a full day.
MUNDAN (shaving of head hair)
 : During the fast for a quarter of a day, removal of bodily hairs is required. For the fast of half day, shaving of the bodily hair, moustache and beard is required. Donation of a bull is required for the fast of three-quarters of a day while donation of two cows is required for a full day fast.

DONATION: One must donate a pair of clothes- (dhoti and kurta) to a Brahmin to complete the fast of a quarter day and a saucer of bronze to complete the fast of half day.


                                                              TENTH CHAPTER
The tenth chapter describes the expiation required to 

  • wash the sins of having illegal carnal relations with women other than the wife. Sage Parashar, it seems, had known that it would be a characterizing feature of Kali Yuga. Hence, he says :A man who has relations with other women than his wife, can get purified only by observing Chandrayan Vrata (a fast devoted to the moon). Those Brahmins, who have illegal carnal relations with the women of low caste must observe a fast for three days and three nights continuously. Then, he must get shaven of his head hair including the normal tuft of hair left otherwise. And ultimately, he should observe to Prajapatya Vrata .

A man must expiate for the sins of eating cereals of Shudra, Sutak, downtrodden, of suspicious origin, forbidden otherwise, or defiled food. There is a provision of Krichchha Vrata.


                                                     TWELFTH CHAPTER
Nightmares: According to Parashar Smriti, nightmares are akin to the sins and require proper expiation by taking a bath.
  • If one has a nightmare in which he sees himself vomiting, getting shaven, having intercourse or sees smokes rising above a cremation ground, one should get purified by taking proper bath. Taking a proper bath, ill effects of a nightmare are removed.
  • If someone of Brahmin, Kshatriya and Vaishya class consumes urine or wine unknowingly, he must begin his consecrations afresh. In the purification rituals, one doesn’t have to wear buck’s skin, waistline, stick, fast etc. Prajaapatya Vrata is sufficient to get free from such sin. Bath: Five types of bath have been identified

If a Brahmin doesn’t make offering to the sacred fire regularly, doesn’t pray every evening and morning and doesn’t study the Vedas, he is more a Shudra than a Brahmin.

  •  Such a Brahmin is powerless and Smriti allows certain flexibility to such a Brahmin for the study of the Vedas.If complete study of Vedas is out of power, a Brahmin must necessarily study a part of Veda.

If a person, who has resolved to dine silently, speaks or has to speak during his meal must get up at once. All the people dining together must stand up together after finishing their meal.

  • NORMS OF EATING:It is not proper to dine without taking bath, reciting the name of God and making offerings to the sacred fire. One should not eat on the reverse side of plantain and without proper lighting during the night.


NORMS FOR EARNING MONEY
One should not take to just any means to earn money. Wisdom is said to be earning with due contemplation on religion and only as much as is required to raise the family

Religion is earning money by just means to preserve one’s soul and foster one’s family. One, who runs his life by unjust means stays away from the pious deeds. Unjust means add to irreligion and irreligion leads to loss of life.
The sin of snatching the land from the powerless people cannot be washed away from digging hundreds of ponds. Drinking water directly immersing mouth in the river is also forbidden.If a stupid Brahmin drinks water directly immersing his mouth in the river despite having hands, he certainly takes birth in a dog’s incarnation.
  • One should observe a fast for a day for having eaten cereals of a characterless Brahmin. If a woman comes in menses within eighteen days of the previous one, she can get purified by taking a bath. 
  • A Brahmin, who has stolen gold must go to the court with a mortar and confess his crime before the king. He is purified now, whether or not the king hits him with the morta

    • Thus, Parashar Smriti shows the people of Kali Yuga, the way of religious conduct. And the people follow the dictates of this Smriti with respect.